When He Pulls Away: A Guide for Partners of Struggling Men
13 January 2026
Why do men pull away when they face mental health challenges? We go over why in this guide for partners of struggling men.
Addiction and recovery counselling is about more than stopping a habit—it’s about rebuilding trust, managing emotions, and finding healthier ways to cope.
At The Shop, we create a space where men can open up honestly, without judgment, and start walking toward a stronger, steadier life.
Therapy can help you understand what’s driving the cycle, build healthier coping strategies, and reduce shame. The desired outcome is greater control, more stability, and the ability to choose healthier ways to cope and connect.
Addiction and recovery counselling supports men who feel stuck in patterns involving alcohol, substances, gambling, gaming, pornography, or other compulsive behaviours. It’s for those who feel things slipping out of control, are hiding habits from loved ones, or using these behaviours to cope with stress, numbness, or emotional pain. Recovery is not only about stopping a behaviour. It’s about rebuilding a life that makes change sustainable. In therapy, we work with you to understand what’s driving the cycle, strengthen healthier ways of coping, and reduce the shame that often keeps the pattern going. Together, we focus on creating structure, clarity, and support around the moments that matter most.
Why do men pull away when they face mental health challenges? We go over why in this guide for partners of struggling men.
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Not sure how to reconnect with loved ones? Check out our simple guide on emotional disconnection in men and start thawing your system.