a COUNSELLOR for Men Who Get Work Done

The Shop Counselling is run by a registered clinical counsellor who specializes in counselling for men and first responders who can do work and get work done.

About Us

About The Shop

The Shop was created to meet men where they are. Many men face unique pressures when it comes to expressing emotion, asking for help, or navigating major life transitions. At The Shop, we offer a space designed to feel natural, comfortable, and real; a place where honesty is encouraged and vulnerability is respected.

Our work supports men and first responders who are dealing with trauma, stress, anxiety, addiction, and relationship challenges using practical tools and evidence-based approaches. Sessions are paced thoughtfully, focused on real conversations and strategies that can be applied outside the therapy room.

Richard’s background as a volunteer firefighter and former trade worker shapes much of The Shop’s philosophy. He understands the reality of high-stress environments, exposure to trauma, and the impact these experiences can have on identity, relationships, and mental health. Combined with his role as a stepfather, this lived experience allows him to connect authentically with men from a wide range of backgrounds.

At its core, The Shop is about creating meaningful, lasting change, helping men build self-awareness, resilience, and healthier ways of coping with life’s challenges.

THE SHOP

Values That Actually Matter

Honesty

Trustworthy
Accountable
Transparent
Collaborative

Respect

Understanding
Compassion
Sensitivity
Social responsibility

Practicality

Direction
Integrity
Lifelong learning
Realistic

Richard "RJ" Friedland, registered clinical counsellor and psychotherapist for men at The Shop

Richard "RJ" Friedland, MACP, RCC, EMA.

Founder & Lead Therapist

Richard “RJ” Friedland is a registered clinical counsellor who specializes in working with men and first responders, offering both individual and group counselling. With extensive experience in addiction and recovery, as well as advanced training in EMDR for trauma and post-traumatic stress, Richard brings a practical and grounded approach to mental health care. His work is rooted in the belief that men benefit from support that speaks directly to their lived experiences—without judgment, pressure, or clinical rigidity.

Not your typical therapy office.

COUNSELLING FOR MEN

A safe space to open up about stress, relationships, or identity without judgment. Practical support to help you build resilience and confidence in everyday life.

Addiction and recovery Counselling

A welcome space that’s free of white coats and judgment. Recovery at The Shop includes practical support and grounded tools that you can use in your life.

Anxiety and Depression

Support for managing anxiety, low mood, and emotional overwhelm. Counselling helps you understand patterns, develop practical coping tools, and reconnect.

EMDR

Richard is trained to provide eye movement desensitization and reprocessing to men and first responders who need an extra hand and a secure space.

Stress Counselling

Sick and tired of work and expectations, or just sick and tired in general? We offer stress counselling when you’re tired of having too many stressful days in a row.

Trauma Counselling

Events from the past are some of the hardest things to process. We offer an open space for trauma counselling where you can share your story at your own pace—no judgment included.

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